No matter how excited you may be to visit your new boyfriend for the first time, it's important to take some time to learn what is and isn't acceptable to do. After all, a first visit to your boyfriend's house can either make or break the relationship, and you don't want to do anything that could have a negative impact on it. To ensure your visit goes smoothly, here are 10 things a girl should never do when she visits her boyfriend's house for the first time.

1. Don't wear anything revealing or provocative: Your outfit should reflect the level of respect you have for your boyfriend's parents and the occasion. Save your daring fashion choices for another day!

2. Don't try to one-up your boyfriend or put him down in any way: Nobody wants to be around someone who constantly compares themselves favorably to someone else. Just try to be yourself and don't feel the need to constantly compete with him.

3. Don't neglect basic hygiene: It's understandable that you might be a bit nervous on the big day, but be sure to take the time to brush your teeth, take a shower and wear deodorant. Not doing so would be an immediate turn off for any host.

4. Don't criticize the decor: First impressions are everything and the last thing you want to do is give the wrong impression. Avoid offering any critiques of the decor unless specifically asked to do so.

5. Don't show up empty handed: A small gesture of gratitude, such as bringing a nice bottle of juice, is always a great way to thank your hosts for their hospitality.

6. Don't forget to introduce yourself to his parents: No matter how nervous you may feel, it's important to remember that this is your boyfriend's family, and you should take the time to introduce yourself and make a good impression.

7. Don't dominate the conversation: You should absolutely share your thoughts and ideas during conversation, but try not to dominate the discussion. Remember, this is your boyfriend's house, so let him have some time to talk as well.

8. Don't forget your manners: This should go without saying, but make sure to use your manners and remember the basics. Saying please and thank you goes a long way.

9. Don't talk about the future: This is your first visit to his home, and it would be unwise to talk about your plans for the future together at this point in the relationship. Let the relationship take its natural course, and wait until you've seen each other more before discussing your plans.

10. Don't forget to have fun: Despite all the rules and restrictions, remember that the most important thing is to enjoy your visit. Take some time to laugh and make some memories!

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