TOP 10 QUESTIONS YOU NEED TO ASK YOURSELF BEFORE GETTING MARRIED 2023

Family is a beautiful thing which cause people to call a house a home. Without a family that place you live in is just a building and not a home. Home is made up of husband and a wife if God blesses there are kids too.

In this article we are going to discuss top 10 questions you need to ask yourself or you need to be aware of before making plans of getting yourself a wife. Remember family's purpose is not just sex but many things surrounds it.

The questions below are outlined with their answers for easy understanding of what you really supposed to know before making mistakes that can see you getting divorced in less than a month.

1. Am I  really matured to stay with a woman as a wife?

This questions is about your age and endurance when other hard times gets on your way. Less than 18 years please do not dare to get married. To my side as a servant of God I preach that a boy should at least be 25 years and a wife should be at least 21 years when joining marriage life. At this age of 25 or 21 the body parts are matured enough to bear children without early motherhood maternity deaths. Remember this has usually no insurance.

2. Are you materially ready to support the family?

This is about financial independence and also able to support family in all 4 seasons of the yearly calendar. Are you able to pay all required bills, and food on the table. 

3. Have you finished playing with other girls already or not?

It is worrisome in many new marriages as cases of cheating are on increasing rate. Court files marriage cases everyday because of cheating lifestyle. Many lawyers, attorneys and judges are busy daily handling issues of divorces. 

4. Are you able to tolerate and understand when your spouse does mistakes in the house?

It is normal humans to be sometimes I the wrong or mess up on something. So as a man you need to be prepared mentally in order to cope up with such stresses.

5. How many children do I need to bear and be able to raise them?

This will depend with your financial muscles and physical ability. Many people do not choose to bear 10 or 15 kids but due to other circumstances in nature. For example your wife only giving birth to girl children whilst your heart wishes to have a boy child. This will prompt you to have more number of kids than you expected.

6. What type of a woman do want to marry?

This question is about the color, ethnicity and originality. If you are from Paris France do you want an Italian lady or indian woman. This should be in you plans before getting married. Some people prefer to get married to women who are bot from their country.

7. What age should my wife I want to marry be?

Some boys wish to marry old aged women for easy understanding and they also claim that these women do not cheat. Some men wants younger girls who are less than 20 years old. Age in the family many quotas say it does not matter but I surely say to you it matters most. If you want to bear children you can not marry a woman who is more 50 years that one is a granny. Marry a youth who is less than 30 of age then you are assured of kids to be born.

8. Do you need a working class woman or not?

It becomes so challenging when it comes to who should you marry between the woman who is working and that one who will be just staying home. Making your choices happening it is a best idea than to be told by either your brothers or parents because you may be pointing them fingers in future. Marrying a woman works has advantages as she contributes in daily bills payments whilst disadvantage is that she does not have enough time to chat with you or do house activities home. As for the housewife is the best as she does not commonly cheat on you and does almost everything to help you in the house. Eating your own food is best than eating what is prepared by a houseworker or at the Macdonald's restaurants.

9. Should I marry a Christian or Muslim or non religious woman?

This is legally branded question. It helps your family to be at peace through what you believe in. If you do not believe in church lifestyle do never marry a religious woman it will be a disastrous like Hola movies. Marry anyone of your culture and beliefs to avoid more troubles.

10. Do you want to marry a city woman or a village type of a woman?

To be in a relationship is a choice but to love it's mandatory. Decode before doing mistakes. More advantages for marrying a village woman because she lives a normal budgeting life than the town ones. The village ladies understand problems faster and stand with you in times of challenges whilst the town women rub away when things are in corner for you. 

Marriage is a  beautiful and inspiring stage of life in every humanity. Family place is for not pleasure only but also for shoulder each other in times of catastrophes. Do not enter into marriage if your only target is sexual activity as you see the beauty of the lady planning to marry. Any woman's beauty fades away when she starts giving birth. Marry to settle down with life not as a sporting activity.