Families Center as faith based online platform to bring sanity in the families and communities, today we have put down another crucial topic and debatable one. On who should apologize first when there are misunderstandings in the families.
This is a tough theme as mostly many family members like a mother or father always regard themselves as innocent when conflict erupts.
When such conflicts begin it takes for the sober heart to cool down and stop responding to the awkward words being uttered in their arguments. Everyone believes they are right.
On humanitarian grounds it is wise when one is angry the other one should like a fool just to remain calm and never reply in that way the conflict does not go a long way. The other party who is angry become ashamed when he/she sees the friend is joy replying at all. The conflict ends quickly.
Usually woman do not feel happy to apologize but I plead with you mentioned to shoulder the responsibility of bringing peace in your houses and if possible practice to be slow to become angry. And also if possible try as much as possible to avoid conflicting environment.
It should also be noted that when one is angry please try to stick to the issue currently being questioned rather than digging past issues that will bring more anger that may end up breaking things in the house or send you to partying ways.
We should also take advantage of this article to advise the families that it is not wise when your misunderstanding is based on finances you end up fighting and breaking household items like plates and stuff. This is abnormality.
The most important thing in family is that you should learn one another on the do's and don'ts then you shall have peace in your house. Beat in mind for a conflict to erupt it means something was done on contrary to what your partner loves it to be done so always avoid things that will bring filth in your families.
Another part is that when you see your partner is very much angry that the fight can not be avoided please walk/run away and come back when the hearts have cooled. This is the highest wisdom your parents and relatives will not tell you.
In conclusion, this article was describing on how to manage conflict in the families and also enlightening on who should apologize when there are misunderstandings. Remember to remember family comes first don't play around for it is of a great blessing to have a family in life.