In the families we have various cultures from different areas of where we were brought up. Some characters are deemed to be bad and they are compiled in this article to be destroyed or to be stopped practicing them.
These cultures are either played by the husbands or wives. Usually some are done when one partner dies or the kids are in the process of growing up.
The examples of unacceptable characters are: inheriting a wife after a brother dies, sleeping with your dead brother's wife aiming to remove the dust, sending older men to sleep with small girls to test whether they are matured during initiation ceremonies, forcing young girls to get married quickly and forcing young girls to remove unwanted pregnancies.
First character to be discouraged is inheriting wife of your dead husband. This practice is totally bad. Usually it is practiced in Asian and African Countries. It is said that a woman should not remain a widow instead should get married to the remaining brother of the deceased. This is killing the rights of that woman because she has a choice of the type of life style she wants to live and enjoy. Another disadvantage it helps in spreading communicable diseases like HIV/AIDS.
Second evil unacceptable character is having sexual intercourse with the widow with the belief of getting rid of the dust. It is said once the man dies the woman is unclean hence there is need of another man from the previous husband to perform rituals to have sex with the woman in order to make her clean before she is released to married somewhere else.
Allowing a man to sleep with young girls during initiation ceremonies to test them whether they are ready for marriage. This is very evil culture done in Africa and Asia. It makes it bad for those girls because they do not make a choice or know the type of person they sleep with because the man wears masks in order not to be identified. This culture has contributed a lot to unwanted pregnancies, and spread of sexually transmitted diseases like HIV/AIDS.
Another bad culture is forcing younger girls to get married whilst at tender ages. This makes it hard for them to withstand challenges that occur in the marriages. For example their body parts are not yet matured to stand against all daily required responsibilities like making sure cooking is done properly, cleaning the house, washing clothes, doing sex with the man and many other things. Waist part of this bad culture is that they get early pregnancies that make them difficult to deliver during labour in hospital.
The last discovered culture which should also be stopped is forcing girls to remove emergency and unwanted pregnancies which came without planning or those that whose ken have denied. The waste par with this culture is that the girls are encouraged to remove the pregnancies using local and traditional methods. This local method has brought a lot of complications towards these girls like dying during the process, or loss of too much blood, or loosing their womb. The other thing is that these medicines do not have measures and sometimes do affect the girls never to be able to bear children anymore.
In this context, unacceptable characters that are practiced in the families which need urgent policy to abolish the worldwide as they have totally disadvantages in and out. Let us all parents follow right things to save lives of our children and to help stop spreading the communicable diseases that come due to such evil unacceptable practices.
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