Families Center as a website has brought another controversial context which is talking about the real pillars and facts about families in our daily living in the world.
Family has a lot of things we can talk and discuss but there are other facts that everyone embarking into the marriage journey should be aware of to avoid unnecessary mistakes. In family many are rich, some fat and others are in unresting stresses and depressions.
As Families Center we have seen many people including young boys and girls rushing into the marriages claiming they want to be free from torture spoken from parents and friends unfortunately they entered without being well prepared now they are crying.
Marriage journey should never b done in competition instead listen to your mentality and physicality whether you will withstand the pressures and forces that do exist in the Families journey.
The Families Center discusses five important and real facts about Family and these are: Husband remains the head of the family, children are the bond between man and woman, sex is the core Center to bring Family together, cultural values should be observed to avoid unnecessary stress in the Families and no man or woman feels safe when their partner chats with other opposite sex friends.
Husband is regarded and will always be placed as the head of the family and the mother the deputy head. This doesn't mean that when a woman is working or getting more money in the house then she has taken the headship no.
Woman can have the big position at work but marriage is a separate Business and it needs to be respected all the time. What should be respected in the family is the relationship bearing in mind important facts that brought you two people together as one body.
It is also discovered that a family secret that make it last longer is by having children in it. Children work as bond or bridge in the Marriages. There might be differences and disputes but they can not be for long time whilst not solved. Many arguments are solved faster due to the presence of kids in the house born to both of you.
Listen carefully, we are not saying the adopted kids or kids from another mother or father can not bring the bond but the children who were born in the family brings more memorable moments to the two parents.
Nobody can deny that sex is another pillar of marriage. Without doing or enjoying sex in the Family things do fall apart. The man starts clueless life and even the mother if not enjoying the bed love she behaves awkwardly.
It is a must for both man and woman to enjoy this sex in their house unless time of some natural issues like sickness. This process should be done peacefully so that everyone feels the real nature.
Ladies and gentlemen stop denying sex to your partners for reasons known to yourselves. All conflicts should be solved before sleeping and or before Woking up in the morning so that the day should bring great smiles to both of you. The smile that kids see during the day at home train them automatically to be smiling and humble people to the community.
Similar cultural values make another pillar in the family. If two people get married whilst they do not understand their cultures first it will be a battle ground and not a family home.
There are cultures which come in due to religious practices or existing naturally in our communities. People should be aware of the type of foods, clothes, symbols and their meanings and even language to both sides before engagement or hold a wedding.
Other Society eating pork (pig meat) is not health whilst the other they enjoy eating pork much. When they eat pork they regard their Christmas day.
When these two come together without knowledge of this culture there will only be sorrows and tears even starvation. Let us make the families to be more admirable to everyone. Just imagine some are afraid of getting married because they saw the marriage of their neighbors never worked.
Last and fifth pillar or fact about marriage that Family Center is discussing in this article is that a married woman or man should never have a friend of opposite sex unless is a core-worker on a certain company or organisation.
It is discovered that a male can not stay longer with a woman who is not a wife without starting bad behaviours like kissing or having sex. It is advisable that all married people should stay away from such toxic relationships that can cause headache to our families.
In this passage there have been been five great facts that really exist in the Families across the globe. Family Center has always repeatedly saying that Marriages are are the most beautiful places to be found than anywhere in the universe.
If things that used to do before getting engaged you are still doing them just know your are deliberately creating unnecessary pressure to your partners that can lead to sickness which can make them die early than their natural dates of death.