TOP CHALLENGES EXPERIENCED WHEN CHEATING OUR LOVED ONES IN THE FAMILIES

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In the last topic Families Center discussed an article on how to handle a husband who is cheating on you with other women. It is painful to be cheated in the marriage and it is a wasteful thing amongst many issues affecting families.

In this article, Families Center will be explaining more about the challenges that are experienced in the family when one person is cheating on the other faithful loved one.

First challenge of cheating a wife or husband is that you live without peace of mind all the time. Even when your lover speaks to you humbly you respond aggressively as if there is something bad about him or her.

 Everytime everyone to you is a threat or a suspect thinking maybe he or her knows about your privacy. Everything you do you always try to do in hiding and not willing to share even with your closet friends. This gradually impacts your life negatively.

Another good challenge which is experienced is lack of enough time to to stay together with your family. Always the lover wants you to be together and enjoy life whilst leaving the family members without your company. The children grow with hatred life and shape bad generation in future will encourage lack of good association.

 There are no developments in the family is another major challenge faced when you are cheating outside the marriage. The salary or Money you get is already not enough to support you and your family but you get another percentage from it to give the extra lover shares. In that kind of life never expect developments to take place in your family until you grow old and you shall die without anything.

Persistent and unceasing conflicts in the family. This is also a challenging issue in marriages when your husband or wife discovers that you are cheating. You will always quarrelling, fighting and no peace in the house. Remember in that way you are grooming the kids that fighting is another type of lifestyle.

The other dangerous and last disappointing challenge on our list is sharing of diseases to your partner. Most wives and husbands are today suffering heavily from incurable diseases that they got from their loved ones. Many children today are orphans because of this evil character.

Family and Marriage is meant to be enjoyed to the fullest not to be turned into a battle field or a brothel. 

Respect yourselves, your husbands or wives regardless of financial status or physical inabilities. One love, happy marriage and enjoyable environment in the family.